Wednesday, January 2, 2019

New Year, New Room!!

It's been almost 2 months since my last update on our crazy life split between NH and TN. The separation hasn't gotten any easier, that part is emotionally draining, but the house has continued to progress and become a less stressful place to live.

Since my last post the girls have had their winter choral concert and auditioned for the school play with the drama club. I am proud to report they both got cast. Rylie is actually a lead character and Caitie is playing multiple characters with many lines throughout the play. The play is 67 Cinderellas and Rylie is playing Prince Dalliance, he is the prince that dances with Cinderella at the ball and the play is him trying to figure out who the glass slipper fits, it's a comedy and I am really excited to see it performed. The performance is March 15th and 16th, if anyone his interested in going let me know and I can get tickets!

Steve is still doing very well in his position with Ingram Content Group. He really likes the job and the people that he works with. While he does spend quite a bit of time without us, he is not totally without companionship! He still has Inky and Ash, our two Guinea pigs, and has completely spoiled them but also helped mold them into more friendly and outgoing little piggies! He was here with us over Christmas break and left yesterday to go back. While he was here he and I worked hard on getting lots of things accomplished in the house. We were able to make 3 trips with the mini van for more things from storage. We also managed to have some family time in there as well. We took the girls to see Aquaman in the theater, visited with my family down in MA. and spent a lovely NYE at home with the girls watching movies and eating take out food and ice cream sundaes!

Our big family Christmas gifts this year were tickets to see Pink in concert in Nashville and a ski trip over February break to Montana that will also allow us to see Steve's dad. The girls were really excited about both. While I got some wonderful gifts this year, I think my favorite was my new bedroom!

Our contractor John finished up all the drywall, doors, windows, closet etc. so when Steve arrived all that was left was painting. we started with the trim, which is tedious work, and the doors. That took a few days and few coats. But once that was done we started on the walls and that went much faster. We got the room finished Sunday evening, just in time for our new bed to arrive! We put the room together with new blackout blinds on the windows, a new rug and a new dresser and were able to sleep in the new room that night! New Years Eve day was spent putting in the closet organizer and reorganizing the room I had been sleeping in to turn it into the living room finally. I opened and unpacked boxes for the kitchen and we put up pictures in most of the rooms too. It has really come together and I am excited to start the new year in less chaos. Caitie is still in what will be the craft/teen room as her room is next on the agenda for the contractor, but Rylie was able to move into her room finally and set it up as she wanted. It will still need to be demolished and re-done but that will happen sometime later this year, so for now she's in it as is. She chose the wall color...Slytherin of course!

I hope you enjoy the progress pictures. I wish you all a wonderful 2019, may it be for you everything 2018 was not.

Starting to paint the walls


First things hung up, this is our dining room.


New bed, New room!






Rylie's room




My hallway cleared out (it had been a staging ground for tools) and decorated!


I will never take silverware for granted again! I spent the last 6 months with 4 butter knives and 6 forks and spoons...that's a LOT of dish washing!

Our living room! We are still waiting to to get the couch but for now Steve's grandfathers chair will do! That black contraption on the doorway is a piece of exercise equipment, it can slide up and down to adjust the height of my exercise bands so I can do my shoulder (and other) exercises at home!



Happy New Year!!












Monday, November 5, 2018

Progress...and HEAT!!!

We are still in the throws of construction mess, however, there have been big strides made, namely I have first floor heat! That has been HUGE! My eventual bedroom downstairs has gotten new windows, ceiling and walls and a newly framed in closet (it had none before). The dining room had its ceiling and the top walls above the chair rail painted this weekend by Steve and myself. The kitchen floor is finished and our friend Kevin is working on new cabinets/drawers surrounding the refrigerator so I can hopefully get my kitchen boxes emptied and have a really functioning and well stocked kitchen again. Caitie's eventual bedroom upstairs has been totally gutted and is awaiting the contractor to head up there. Right now our contractor is coming only when it rains as he is splitting time between our work and a roof job he has. The one thing I STILL don't have is a damn fence. It is still my biggest stressor and with cold weather here it is NOT fun to be out walking at night, which is the best time to walk Sadie so she has the smallest chance of acting like a raving lunatic!

Steve was here this weekend and for the first time we didn't have to spend the entire weekend working on the house! We took the girls shopping for winter gear, ate out, watched a family movie together (Ant Man and the Wasp...so good!) and just got to relax and spend time together, it was very much needed for all of us! The next time new see him will be when we head to TN for Thanksgiving break.

The girls are doing well and keeping busy. They both just auditioned for the school play today and will find out if they got parts on Wednesday. They both also tried out a Jui-Jitsu class on Sunday and really liked it. It's close to home so they can walk there and since it's on a Sunday it doesn't interfere with school work etc.

I've been busy with new private clients and classes. I am currently working with this incredibly sweet and adorable baby bulldog, she makes my day when I get to see her. I just spent a week in Memphis at the Association of Professional Dog Trainers conference and really enjoyed myself. On top of getting to see some great speakers and meet people, I was able to spend time with two of my best girl friends AND see Steve when he and the girls came for the last weekend there. It was a nice way to spend my birthday.

Life is pretty mundane, which I can't complain too much about. I'm feeling much less stress than I have been the last few months. I'll taking boring over prolonged chaos any day!

Enjoy the day!

Wall and window demo in my bedroom



I got rid of this third window so my bed could go on this wall

Putting my bedroom back together...a new closet is built!




Caitie's bedroom demo'd...neither of these rooms had any significant insulation in the walls and barely any in the attic above Caitie's room.



Newly built kitchen cabinet progress





I got a little carried away scraping the ceiling...
And in the process spilled paint...sigh


New Dining room walls and windows and a new coat of paint!




Joy!





Tuesday, September 25, 2018

1 month and 8 days later

So, I have a fully functional laundry room that is only waiting for door trim to be painted, a fully functional downstairs bathroom with a lovely large shower and a sliding barn door that is just waiting for touch up paint to the trim, a beautiful new back splash so no more wall dust on my stove top! The kitchen floor had its' final sanding and is awaiting the varnish (or whatever the heck it's called!) That I will be doing on Wednesday (if all goes according to plan) the dining room is still waiting for one wall of new drywall but I have one new bedroom door and a new basement door, no more ugly bi-fold doors! Other than that....it's all still the same. We are having another friend come in to finish up the downstairs bedroom, Caitiff's room upstairs and the bathroom upstairs hopefully quickly enough so we can get our heating system up and moving before it gets much colder. Right now a few large space heaters are sufficing to take the chill out of the air when we wake up to 48 degrees outside! I am STILL waiting for my yard to be fenced! I swear that has been the biggest strain on me and caused the most stress. The poor dogs have been relegated to one leash walk a day, going out back on leash for potty breaks and being sequestered in the one room that isn't torn apart. Sadie is handling it relatively well, I think the stress has gotten to Jojen. He is frantic in his sniffing outside now, even more food driven than normal (and he's a pig on a good day) and he's just plain more spazzy than normal. His nearly impeccable training has collapsed as well. It is very disconcerting but I'm doing my best.

The girls are doing well in school both have all A's with one B so far. We discovered the other day, thanks to the paper because the school doesn't officially recognize it any other way, that both girls made high honors last quarter in the last school year. I believe Caitie made high honors all year and since Rylie went back late she was only there for that quarter. Rylie was excited because "colleges like that sort of thing". Rylie is challenging herself with her AR reading goal this year. The AR is Accelerated Reader and it's a program that tests your knowledge of books you read. You accumulate points based on how well you do on the comprehension tests. By day 4 of school Rylie had already surpassed her given AR goal by double so she asked her teacher to put her goal at 1000. As of last week she was over 800 and we are making a list of books she's read that she hasn't tested for yet. This goal is quarterly too so she will need to meet or exceed this goal each quarter, this is the type of challenge she lives for. Saturday she went to the library and brought home 40 books, by Sunday she had read 5! I have't tested her but I have a strong suspicion she is a speed reader. Her comprehension of what she reads is off the charts, we've quizzed her, many times! It's crazy and inspiring! Of course I am their mom so I will brag on their good qualities, but they aren't perfect, believe me! They still make me crazy with being late in the mornings for school, not picking up their clothes after a shower and general teenage stuff, for the most part I can't complain, they are good to each other and really good kids.

Steve still loves his job in TN and is doing really well. He still hates being away from us and I am afraid that he may turn into the crazy guinea pig man (instead of crazy cat lady) LOL We miss him a lot and really look forward to his visits, even if we seem to be working on the house every time.

So that's where we are, still wrapped up in crazy and taking it day to day, sometimes, minute to minute!






Friday, August 17, 2018

1 month and 7 days later...

I am still drowning in a dusty, deconstructed, slowly being put back together house. Things are progressing but not fast enough for my level of impatience! All the asbestos piping was removed, the old boilers taken out, old radiators and piping removed, walls have been torn down, floor jackhammered (yes, jackhammered) up; but we've also put in a new bathroom floor, a new shower downstairs, new electrical...all over and still more to do, new toilet, sink, washer plumbing, new subfloor in the pantry and fresh insulation in the bathroom walls. Still on deck: new windows, replacing walls, hooking up washer and dryer (finally), brand new heating system to be installed (currently in the works) linoleum in bathroom and laundry room, finish work and then it's on to my bedroom! Yeah, that list is mainly the kitchen, new full bath and laundry room! It is no longer a project it is truly a renovation of an old house! I would be truly lost and overwhelmed though if it weren't for the help and friendship of the Beaulieu family. They have really made this process much more bearable.

The girls have been lucky to hang out in TN these last 3 weeks and not deal with all the mess and constant flow of work crews. They are happily enjoying central AC, a pool and all day tech access! We did manage to get them enrolled in a couple online classes through Outschool.com and they are doing some review math lessons on IXL but mostly they are enjoying the new phones we gave them. We held off longer than most but it has come to the point where they are spending enough time away from us and on their own that we felt it was time they had a reliable way to contact us.

Steve and I had a wonderful anniversary celebration in Boston. It was so nice to get away and just spend time together. My visit to TN over his birthday weekend was equally nice and now I am counting down the long 4 weeks until he comes home for and extended weekend over Labor Day.

I hope you are all enjoying these last vestiges of summer!

Karie helping me take down the ugly brick facing

Icky insulation under the window

New plumbing!!!

Pretty new shower in what used to be a laundry-1/2 bath

Kevin and Wyatt ripping up the brick hearth

making one of my glass projects

Cutest little red menace

He does this and I forgive all his transgressions

Best napping buddy

Sherman found a perfect hiding spot